Work With Jo
Work With Jo
Support after betrayal. Space to come back to yourself.
If infidelity, sexual betrayal or secret pornography use has shaken your trust, you do not have to work through every question alone.
I’m Jo, a Betrayal Recovery Coach & Educator. I help betrayed partners understand what happened, clarify their boundaries and decide what comes next.
Choose a focused Clarity Session or enquire about ongoing support. Coaching takes place on Google Meet, in English, for a global audience.
My work supports your choices and self-trust. It does not diagnose or treat CSBD, addiction or other mental health conditions.
90 minutes · Google Meet
US$150 reference
Charged R2,700
Betrayal Clarity Session
A focused, private online session for when discovery has left you with more questions than answers. Make sense of what you know, identify your immediate needs and boundaries, and choose a manageable next step.
Includes brief pre-session questions and a concise written next-step summary. No commitment to ongoing coaching.
Private Coaching Programme · 12 weeks
US$750 reference
Charged R13,500
Back to Me After Betrayal
For when you want continued support beyond the first conversation. Explore boundaries, accountability and the decisions ahead while rebuilding confidence in your own judgement.
Includes six private online sessions of 60 minutes over 12 weeks, with reflection prompts between sessions.
US$750 reference, or 3 × US$250 reference
Charged R13,500 upfront, or 3 monthly payments of R4,500 (R13,500 total). The Betrayal Clarity Session is a separate purchase (US$150 reference; charged R2,700).
There is no pressure to stay, leave or forgive. Enquire to discuss whether this programme is right for you.
For the partner who broke trust
Accountability & Relationship Repair
If you have been unfaithful or broken your relationship’s agreements, begin with acknowledging your choices, understanding their impact and taking practical responsibility. This is individual coaching, without pressure on your partner to forgive or stay.
90-minute session · Google Meet
US$150 reference
Charged R2,700
Ongoing coaching is also available: six 60-minute sessions over 12 weeks. US$750 reference, or 3 × US$250 reference. Charged R13,500 upfront, or 3 monthly payments of R4,500 (R13,500 total). The 90-minute session is separate.
CLIENT REFLECTIONS
In their own words
“I can’t tell you how much speaking to you and guiding me when I felt very low helped me. Thank you for everything. You are an absolute gem.”
T.
“Jo, you have helped me so much to find my confidence and, most importantly, find myself again.”
N.
“Jo, thank you for helping me see my own worth again, guiding me back to myself and helping me understand that the answers were always within me.”
J.
“Jo, thank you for helping me understand that what happened to me happened for me, and that I am no longer a victim of those circumstances.”
Z.
Shared with permission. Initials used for privacy. Lightly edited for spelling and punctuation. These are individual experiences and perspectives, not promises of a particular outcome.
Unsure where to start?
Request a free 20-minute Discovery Call on Google Meet to ask questions and explore whether coaching together is right for you. This is an introductory conversation, not a coaching session.
USD amounts are reference prices. Payments are charged in South African rand (ZAR); your bank determines the final USD amount and may apply conversion fees.
Booking your session
Choose the paid session above to pay through PayFast. Then follow the booking button in your paid-order confirmation to choose an available calendar slot. Payment alone does not reserve an appointment.
Sessions are on Google Meet. Jo generally offers Monday to Thursday, 09:00 to 12:00 and 19:00 to 21:00, plus Friday, 09:00 to 12:00, South African time (UTC+2). Check the calendar time zone before confirming. If you need a particular time, enquire before paying.
Before you book
How do I pay and choose a time?
For either paid 90-minute session, pay securely through PayFast first. Your paid-order confirmation contains a clearly marked booking button. Follow it to choose an available time, enter the same email address used for payment and include your order reference. Payment alone does not reserve an appointment.
Which time zone does the calendar use?
Check the time zone shown in the booking calendar before confirming. Choose the time that works for you in that time zone. Jo works from South Africa (UTC+2) and offers morning and selected evening appointments for international clients.
Where will we meet?
Sessions take place online on Google Meet. After completing the calendar booking, check your appointment confirmation for the meeting details.
How should I prepare?
Both paid 90-minute sessions include brief preparation questions. You do not need a complete account of everything that happened. Bring the questions you most want to explore, and choose a private place where you can speak comfortably.
Can I reschedule?
The existing booking terms allow one reschedule with at least 48 hours’ notice. They state that no-shows and cancellations within 48 hours forfeit the session. Contact Jo promptly if your plans change.
What if I need help with my booking?
Email jolandi@backtomehealing.com with your order reference. Please keep sensitive personal details out of booking notes.
