Understand what happened.
Rebuild trust in yourself.
Decide what comes next.
Betrayal recovery coaching for partners facing infidelity, sexual betrayal or secret pornography use.
Coaching & Education
A way forward, at your pace.
When trust breaks, you can find yourself questioning the relationship, the past and your own judgement. You do not have to decide everything today.
Jo is a Betrayal Recovery Coach, Educator & Author supporting betrayed partners worldwide in English. Together, you can make sense of what happened, clarify your boundaries and consider your next steps without pressure to stay or leave.
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Betrayal Clarity
Session
A focused coaching conversation for when you need help making sense of betrayal. Bring your questions, explore what matters most right now and identify practical next steps.
Ongoing Coaching
Back to Me
After Betrayal
Ongoing support to reconnect with your needs, practise boundaries and rebuild confidence in your own judgement. Space to consider your relationship and your future, without being rushed towards a decision.
Free Reflection Quiz
How Is Betrayal
Affecting You?
Take a quiet moment to notice what feels hardest right now. Answer eight optional questions and receive a practical next step, helpful reading and support options. Free, immediate results with no email signup. A reflection tool, not a diagnosis.
A Self-Trust Reflection
Can I Trust
Myself Again?
Do you find yourself second-guessing your feelings, questioning your needs or looking to others to make decisions? Explore where trusting yourself feels difficult, and choose one small step forward. Free, immediate results with no email signup.
Meet Jo
Coming back to yourself.
Back to Me Healing is a space for betrayed partners to reconnect with their voice, their needs and their ability to choose.
I’m Jo, a Betrayal Recovery Coach, Educator & Author. My work brings clear education and practical reflection to the questions betrayal leaves behind.
Your needs matter. Your choices belong to you.
We focus on your experience, your boundaries and your next steps. I offer coaching and education; I do not diagnose or treat CSBD, addiction or mental-health conditions.
CLIENT REFLECTIONS
In their own words
“I can’t tell you how much speaking to you and guiding me when I felt very low helped me. Thank you for everything. You are an absolute gem.”
T.
“Jo, you have helped me so much to find my confidence and, most importantly, find myself again.”
N.
“Jo, thank you for helping me see my own worth again, guiding me back to myself and helping me understand that the answers were always within me.”
J.
“Jo, thank you for helping me understand that what happened to me happened for me, and that I am no longer a victim of those circumstances.”
Z.
Shared with permission. Initials used for privacy. Lightly edited for spelling and punctuation. These are individual experiences and perspectives, not promises of a particular outcome.
Learn
Understand betrayal. Explore your options.
Boundaries After Cheating: What Can I Ask For?
Put your needs into words and consider boundaries you can follow through on.
What Does Accountability After Cheating Actually Look Like?
Look beyond reassurance to actions, responsibility and respect for your choices.
How to Trust Yourself Again After Being Lied To
Practise making room for your own needs and judgement after deception.
Physical Symptoms After Betrayal: When Heartbreak Feels Physical
Understand what research can and cannot explain, and when to seek healthcare.
AVAILABLE TO PRE-ORDER · FICTION
The Prince Who Turned Into a Frog
A novel by Johanna Lemoine, the pen name Jo uses for her fiction. A story of love, betrayal, motherhood and the journey back to yourself.
At its heart is a question that also guides Back to Me Healing: what does coming back to yourself look like?
COMING SOON · NON-FICTION
When Betrayal Hurts Your Body
Understanding the physical impact of broken trust and finding your way back to yourself. A forthcoming book by Jolandi Jordaan Kuhn.
COMING SOON · NON-FICTION
Is My Partner Gay?
Finding clarity around sexuality, secrecy and what comes next. A forthcoming non-fiction book by Jolandi Jordaan Kuhn.
A compassionate exploration of difficult relationship questions, not a test of someone’s sexual orientation.
Letters Back to You
When so much of your attention has been on someone else, these letters make a little room for you. One reflection. One small next step. Space to hear your own voice again.
Your Next Step
Still not sure? Ask Jo.
Not sure which support is right for you? Ask Jo a question about the coaching options or request a free 20-minute discovery call on Google Meet. You do not need to have everything worked out before getting in touch.
