Understand what happened.
Rebuild trust in yourself.
Decide what comes next.
Betrayal recovery coaching for partners facing infidelity, sexual betrayal or secret pornography use.
Coaching & Education
A way forward, at your pace.
When trust breaks, you can find yourself questioning the relationship, the past and your own judgement. You do not have to decide everything today.
Jo is a Betrayal Recovery Coach, Educator & Author supporting betrayed partners worldwide in English. Together, you can make sense of what happened, clarify your boundaries and consider your next steps without pressure to stay or leave.
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Betrayal Clarity
Session
A focused coaching conversation for when you need help making sense of betrayal. Bring your questions, explore what matters most right now and identify practical next steps.
Ongoing Coaching
Back to Me
After Betrayal
Ongoing support to reconnect with your needs, practise boundaries and rebuild confidence in your own judgement. Space to consider your relationship and your future, without being rushed towards a decision.
Free Reflection Quiz
How Is Betrayal
Affecting You?
Take a quiet moment to notice what feels hardest right now. Answer eight optional questions and receive a practical next step, helpful reading and support options. Free, immediate results with no email signup. A reflection tool, not a diagnosis.
A Self-Trust Reflection
Can I Trust
Myself Again?
Do you find yourself second-guessing your feelings, questioning your needs or looking to others to make decisions? Explore where trusting yourself feels difficult—and choose one small step forward. Free, immediate results with no email signup.
Meet Jo
Coming back to yourself.
Back to Me Healing is a space for betrayed partners to reconnect with their voice, their needs and their ability to choose.
I’m Jo, a Betrayal Recovery Coach, Educator & Author. My work brings clear education and practical reflection to the questions betrayal leaves behind.
Your needs matter. Your choices belong to you.
We focus on your experience, your boundaries and your next steps. I offer coaching and education; I do not diagnose or treat CSBD, addiction or mental-health conditions.
Coming Soon!
The Prince Who Turned Into a Frog
The Prince Who Turned Into a Frog is a work of fiction by Johanna Lemoine, the pen name Jo uses for her novels.
Through fictional storytelling, the novel explores love, betrayal, motherhood and the journey back to yourself.
At its heart is a question that also guides Back to Me Healing: what does coming back to yourself look like?
Ready to discover the novel?
Join the waiting list for The Prince Who Turned Into a Frog to receive book launch updates.
Coming Soon!
Is My Partner Gay?
Is My Partner Gay? is a forthcoming non-fiction book by Jolandi Kuhn.
Finding clarity around sexuality, secrecy and what comes next.
A compassionate exploration of difficult relationship questions, not a test of someone’s sexual orientation.
Want to know when the book is available?
Join the waiting list for Is My Partner Gay? to receive publication and launch updates.
Learn
Understand betrayal. Explore your options.
Boundaries After Cheating: What Can I Ask For?
Put your needs into words and consider boundaries you can follow through on.
What Does Accountability After Cheating Actually Look Like?
Look beyond reassurance to actions, responsibility and respect for your choices.
How to Trust Yourself Again After Being Lied To
Practise making room for your own needs and judgement after deception.
Physical Symptoms After Betrayal: When Heartbreak Feels Physical
Understand what research can and cannot explain, and when to seek healthcare.
Your Next Step
Still not sure? Ask Jo.
Not sure which support is right for you? Ask Jo a question about the coaching options or request a free 20-minute discovery call on Google Meet. You do not need to have everything worked out before getting in touch.