Betrayal Clarity Session
Make sense of what you know. Decide your next step.
A focused, individual coaching session for betrayed partners facing infidelity, sexual betrayal or secret pornography use.
You may have discovered something recently, be questioning repeated promises, or feel unsure what you need next. Together, we can sort through your questions and identify what deserves your attention now.
Coaching on Google Meet in English with Jo, Betrayal Recovery Coach & Educator, for a global audience.
US$150 reference
Charged R2,700
90-minute private Google Meet session
Includes brief pre-session questions and a concise written summary of your agreed next steps. One payment before your appointment, with no ongoing commitment.
Does any of this feel familiar?
- You keep revisiting what happened and wondering what you missed.
- You have discovered infidelity, sexual secrecy or hidden pornography use.
- You are unsure whether to stay, leave, ask more questions or pause.
- You want to distinguish what you know from what you fear or suspect.
- You need help putting your needs and boundaries into words.
- You want support that leaves room for your own decisions.
You do not need a complete account of what happened before asking for support. We begin with what you know and what matters to you.
What we can work through together
- Your immediate priorities: what feels most pressing and what you want from our conversation.
- Facts and uncertainties: organise what you know, what you have been told and what remains unanswered.
- Language that makes sense: discuss relevant ideas about secrecy, pornography and accountability without diagnosing your partner.
- Your needs and values: explore what matters to you beyond the pressure to keep the relationship together.
- Boundaries and communication: consider what you want to express and the choices within your control.
- Practical next steps: identify manageable actions and any additional support you may need.
We choose the focus together. You will not be pressured to forgive, reconcile or leave. One session cannot uncover hidden facts, establish a partner’s diagnosis or settle every relationship question.
Questions you can bring
- “What do I need to focus on first?”
- “How do I separate what I know from what I suspect?”
- “What would a boundary look like in my situation?”
- “What does accountability mean beyond an apology?”
- “What matters when I am deciding whether to stay or leave?”
- “What support do I need for myself?”
Before you book
- This session is for you: individual support for the betrayed partner. Your partner does not attend; this is not couples counselling.
- No diagnosis is required: you can seek coaching without knowing whether your partner’s behaviour meets criteria for PPU or CSBD. Jo does not diagnose or treat CSBD, addiction or mental-health conditions.
- Coaching has limits: this is not therapy or an emergency service. Specialist needs may call for a qualified clinician or other appropriate professional.
- There is no obligation to continue: if you want ongoing support, ask about Back to Me After Betrayal. We can discuss whether it suits your needs.
You do not need every answer to begin.
Book your private 90-minute session through the secure checkout. After payment, use the booking button in your paid-order confirmation to choose an available time. Your appointment is reserved once you complete the calendar booking. If you have questions before paying, enquire below.
Understand what happened. Rebuild trust in yourself. Decide what comes next.
USD amounts are reference prices. Payments are charged in South African rand (ZAR); your bank determines the final USD amount and may apply conversion fees.
