My Partner Says It Was “Just Porn”. Why Does It Hurt So Much?
Hurt by secret pornography use? Explore the role of secrecy, broken agreements and relationship boundaries without needing to diagnose your partner.
Hurt by secret pornography use? Explore the role of secrecy, broken agreements and relationship boundaries without needing to diagnose your partner.
If you feel like you’re losing your mind after discovering your partner’s sex addiction, there’s a good reason. Your brain is treating the betrayal like a threat to your survival. The obsessive thoughts, the inability to calm down, the feeling of being completely unmoored—this isn’t you being ‘crazy.’ This is…

When so much of your attention has been on someone else, these letters make a little room for you.
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